Imitate the tender, personal self-giving of God

From the homily of Pope Francis at midnight Mass for Christmas 2014:

On this holy night, while we contemplate the Infant Jesus just born and placed in the manger, we are invited to reflect. How do we welcome the tenderness of God? Do I allow myself to be taken up by God, to be embraced by him, or do I prevent him from drawing close? “But I am searching for the Lord” – we could respond. Nevertheless, what is most important is not seeking him, but rather allowing him to seek me, find me and caress me with tenderness. The question put to us simply by the Infant’s presence is: do I allow God to love me?

More so, do we have the courage to welcome with tenderness the difficulties and problems of those who are near to us, or do we prefer impersonal solutions, perhaps effective but devoid of the warmth of the Gospel? How much the world needs tenderness today! The patience of God, the closeness of God, the tenderness of God.

The Christian response cannot be different from God’s response to our smallness. Life must be met with goodness, with meekness. When we realize that God is in love with our smallness, that he made himself small in order to better encounter us, we cannot help but open our hearts to him, and beseech him: “Lord, help me to be like you, give me the grace of tenderness in the most difficult circumstances of life, give me the grace of closeness in the face of every need, of meekness in every conflict”.

Francis Christmas 2014


What will you give Jesus for His birthday?

giftIn the earliest months of his pontificate, St John Paul II found himself in the season of Advent, and took the opportunity to teach about its significance:

Advent means:  God who comes, because he wills “all men to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth” (1 Tim 2:4). He comes because he created the world and man out of love and established the order of grace with him.

He comes, however, “because of sin”.
He comes “in spite of sin”.
He comes to take away sin.

Though not as emphatically penitential as Lent, Advent is a time when, after initially recalling that Jesus will come again triumphantly in glory, we strive to prepare ourselves to celebrate during Christmastide that first, humble coming of Jesus.  Hopefully, our preparation this Advent has included a good Confession and a resolve to turn away from sin.

In Mother Teresa’s Secret Fire (pp. 113-114), Fr Langford illustrates the humility of our Lord with this Christmas-related anecdote from the life of St Jerome:

After many years spent in Jerusalem translating the Word of God, Jerome finished his grand project just days before Christmas.  To celebrate his accomplishment, Jerome decided to spend Christmas Eve in nearby Bethlehem, in one of the many grottoes that dot the countryside.  According to the ancient account, sometime around midnight Jesus appeared to him, saying “Jerome, what will you give me for my birthday?”

Immediately and enthusiastically, Jerome declared, “Lord, I give you my translation of your word.”  But instead of congratulating him, Jesus simply replied, “No, Jerome, that is not what I want.”

Jerome was speechless.  Then he began to complain and remonstrate with Jesus, asking why he had let him go on for forty years, far from home, laboring at something other than what God most wanted from him.  But Jesus remained silent.  Jerome started suggesting other ways of honoring Jesus’ birthday – fasting, becoming a hermit, giving his possessions to the poor.  To each of these Jesus replied, “No. Jerome.  That is not what I want most.”

Finally, Jerome protested, “Then you tell me, Lord.  Tell me what would give you the most joy on your birthday, and you shall have it.

“Do you promise, Jerome?”
“Yes, Lord, anything at all.”
Jesus replied, “Give me your sins…”

Fr Langford recapitulates:

“Give me your sins.”  In his limitless humility, more than any service we can render him, the Lord considers it a gift that we “allow” him to take away our sins.  Why?  Precisely because he thirsts for us, because he longs for union with us, and the only obstacle to that union is our sin – which, in his eyes, then, becomes the most precious gift we can offer.

Will I be able to give Jesus my sins this Christmas?  Strangely enough, even after being absolved of my sins, there is part of me that still regards them as my sins.  Of course, I have not a shadow of a doubt that my sins have been forgiven.  But have I truly given those sins to Jesus?

St Jerome initially proffered the work of his hands as his gift to Christ, but this was rebuffed by the Lord as less than ideal.  This reminds me of something that I’ve heard Scott Hahn say in at least half a dozen of his talks over the years:

God wants to do more in you than he wants to do through you.

May this Christmas be a season in which I seek the heart of my Lord, truly give him my sins, and give to him whatever else it is that he wants the most from me.